When I first learned that Ricki Lake was making a documentary film about birth in America, I was kind of surprised and, I admit, a little startled. After all, she's a talk show host, and most of Hollywood is notorious for being fake and covered in glitz and glam. Anything as messy and "natural" as birthing seems out of place when it you're talking about celebrities, especially when one takes into consideration the number of female celebrities who are "too posh to push" and schedule their elective c-sections as soon as they find out that they're pregnant. I basically brushed the whole thing off. I jokingly applied the term 'semi-crunchy' to myself with regard to mothering style, and figured that I'd have nothing in common with someone 'like that'. Then, I started hearing bits and pieces about the content of the film and I realized that she may really have something to say that was worth hearing.
When I first sat down to watch the film, it was in a room with 5 other women and 11 children (yes, eleven) running in and out of the room. It took us 4 hours to watch an 87 minute film! Somehow, as I was preparing for the Whole Mothering Center's screening of the film, I managed to get four pages of things that were noteworthy to me. Facts and figures, comments, different perspectives - things I just hadn't bothered to look up or heard before. I was amazed at some of the numbers!One of the most significant points to me was how bad our maternity care has gotten in the century since midwives did most of the care for pregnant women.
Of the seven countries with 400,000 births per year, the US ranks LAST when it comes to maternal health. Our country, the leader of the industrialized world, has the highest maternal death rate among industrialized nations and the 2nd worst newborn death rate. Comparing our maternal health care with countries where midwives still attend 70-80% of all births and you see much better outcomes!
Why? How does such a thing happen? How could we, as women and mothers, have LET this happen?
One of the main reasons I feel we are now facing such a medical crisis state in maternal health is a lack of education. We have allowed ourselves to become complacent, letting the doctor take care of things, and trusting that the doctor or facility always has our best interest at heart. We have also allowed a culture of birth fear to color our perceptions of what giving birth is and can be. Television shows rarely feature a natural birth, and rare is it that you will find an obstetrical student who has ever even seen a non-medicated, natural human birth. More often than not, the doctor is painted as a knight in shining armour who swoops in with his epidural and saves the screaming mother from her pain and rescues the baby from certain death.
The reality is that much of the time, 'pain' of childbirth would have been significantly reduced had the mother been encouraged to be an active participant in labor by getting out of the bed and moving freely. The epidural that blocked mother's pain contributed to a longer labor and to the baby's distress, and the c-section that was painted as the saviour of yet another mother/baby pair most likely was caused by the practices and policies we all 'expect' because those are the things we have been cleverly trained to see as 'normal'.
The biggest impact on me has been a renewed determination to ensure that women are informed. Not just of the benefits, but also a real look at the risks and drawbacks of surgical birth. I am also more committed to helping women locate and support midwives in the area. Beaumont currently offers midwifery prenatal care, but no midwives are able to deliver in either of the Beaumont hospitals at this time. I am very interested in helping create a community of women in Southeast Texas who demand midwifery care be accessible locally. I am eager to see the changes we women can make when we set our minds towards a task. I look forward to being with my clients, my friends, my future daughters-in-law and my nieces when they give birth, and know that they are confident in their body's ability to give birth naturally, that they know their options, rights and are both informed and confident in their ability to make the best decisions for their bodies and their babies.
And I hope that you will be, too.
~ Heather